At last it's no longer
necessary for parents to grapple by themselves with the
problems of sibling rivalry. Now for the first time they
can get together, share their frustrations, and study the
basic principles for reducing conflict and generating
goodwill among brothers and sisters.
The Siblings Without
Rivalry group workshop is available in six audio tapes.
It's designed to be run either by a parent or a trained
professional. It is a self-contained, do-it yourself
course that enables you to bring together a group of parents,
teachers, students, colleagues, staff, clients, friends or
neighbors to solve common problems of living or working with
children of all ages.
From the widely
acclaimed authors of How To Talk So Kids Will Listen &
Listen So Kids Will Talk comes the sanity-saving help
parents everywhere have been looking for. Written with humor,
compassion and understanding, and illustrated with delightful
cartoons, Siblings Without Rivalry challenges
the idea that constant, unpleasant conflict is natural and
unavoidable. In action-oriented, easy-to-understand anecdotes and
stories it shows the many ways you can teach your children how to
get along.
"An excellent book...offers
dozens of practical guidelines and real-life examples for
fostering wholesome cooperative sibling relations."
Jane E. Brody, The New
York Times
"A variety of astonishingly
simple and astonishingly effective strategies and skills that
reduce or eliminate sibling rivalry. ...I cannot recommend it
highly enough!"
Nathaniel Branden,
psychiatrist, teacher and bestselling author
"A very human book about one
of the toughest problems parents have to handle."
Dr. Benjamin M. Spock
What
Do the Workshops Teach?
The goal of the Siblings
Without Rivalry group workshop is to help you to help
your children learn how to live together. Each session sensitizes
parents to what it is that increases hostility between children
and the attitude and the language that decreases hostility.
During each session, parents will learn and practice specific
skills that help to reduce friction and make harmony possible.
Participants will also have the
opportunity to take a fresh look at their own adult sibling
relationships.
What
Is in the Group Workshop?
The group workshop consists of a
Workshop Kit/Chairperson's Guide to be used by the group leader
and materials to be used by individual participants.
Workshop
Kit/Chairperson's Guide (order one) It includes:
Directions for the
leader.... Just updated!
Exercises for the
participants (incorporating the entire participant's
workbook).... Just updated!
Sample Certificates of
Completion (purchase of additional copies are
optional)...New!
Evaluation form ...New!
25 promotional brochures
...New!
Sample press release ...New!
Wall poster ...New!
Six 30-minute audio
cassettes (mounted in a 3-ring binder case); pocket
cards, puzzle, supplies
Carrying case (optional)
Participants (order
one each of the items below for each participant)
Participant's Workbook...Just
updated!
Reading materials
(paper-bound book)
Siblings Without
Rivalry: How to help your children
live together so you can live too...1998
Edition
(Extends and deepens
the workshop experience with explanations,
questions and answers, and stories illustrating
each skill.)
What Will Be Covered
in Each Session?
1. Helping
Siblings Deal with Their Feelings About Each Other
What happens to brothers and
sisters when their hostile feelings about each other are
ignored or denied? Four specific methods for helping
children express their negative feelings to each other
without doing damage.
2.Keeping
Children Separate and Unequal
How siblings react when they
are compared to each other-unfavorably or even favorably.
Effective alternatives to comparisons. How siblings feel
about always being treated equally. Ways to treat
children unequally and still be fair.
3. Siblings in Roles
Why brothers and sister are
often cast, and cast each other, into different roles. A
look at how powerfully these roles affect their
relationships with each other. Skills that free each
child to become his or her most whole self.
4. When the Kids Fight
What can you do when
fighting breaks out between the children? An exploration
of commonly used strategies that backfire. A chance to
practice the skills that reduce rage and motivate
children to work out their own solutions.
5. Problem Solving
A method for helping
children deal with the problems they can't work out for
themselves. A simple ten-step approach that enables
adults to sit down with the young combatants so that they
can move toward resolving their conflicts.
6. A Final Review
Time to review and
consolidate your skills. Exercises give you practice in
applying everything you learned to potentially explosive
situations. Finally, an opportunity to take a second look
at your own adult sibling relationships
from your new perspective.